Female - 29 Years Old
how to I open up to him?

We met in a comment section on a social media platform, And since then, we talk everyday on the phone, we chat and text, he'd told me he loved me over text and that I know I will not believe him. So after then, I started liking him too, the problem is that he makes excuses to come and visit me, he is a fresh graduate and still stays with an uncle, because of his excuses to come around, I'm thinking maybe he doesn't like me enough plus he rarely used the L Word...


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Reece So recently I learnt a simple rule that actually still helps while dealing with other people and expectations. Truly, it's a selfish world per-say, we all (humans) want all the positive energy to ourselves in all ramifications of life, Oh yeah! Probably because we can't directly read other people's minds or just a natural selfish desire. We sometimes probably expect more from others and a whole lot of assumptions when we're lost in our thoughts. Communication is the solution, and less expectations because other people might just be living their lives too the right way they think is best for them. I think someone understands. 💭
6 months ago

Chile-4u If you guys re having random chats, take it to mean only that. I know it hard for you as a lady but if you begin to act like you need a relationship, he might get scared and try to stay away from you.... If he is not talking about meeting with you, getting to know you better and wanting a relationship.... Take it easy and see him as a friend.... You don't love him so let him know that you like his company but not desperate
6 months ago

Tyna Guys! Help us o.... Are there ways that a lady should find out what a guy's intentions towards her is without being obvious?
6 months ago
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